rape victim success

one night, a woman, her sisters, brother, and one other woman have been taken by a group of gang bangers, her sister in law, the brother and the other woman have been killed,but her and her sister are still lived as sex slave until they were pregnant. her sister died giving birth in 2007, so she was the only one too tell. her husband refuses to live with her. so she lives with her father.

she is still alive today. seems to be crazy that these things just happens to just anyone. not allot is used to it

Violence in Women

Victim success stories

Many women and children (women only) get raped from 4-12 years old but some survive because the raper's may not transfered diseases to them. Many women are traumatized because of raper's. Women or girl can get infections or by sexuality disases. Women can yet raped by men at any age from child to adult. Many women may stay because they might be afraid they might be abusing them often.
When I read some of this information I was shocked because any lady can get raped by any person, and at any time.http://www.ncve.com/

Ex-Boyfriend Murderer

I read about a lady that got shot by her ex-boyfriend. He was abusing and harassing her. He would drive by her house , follow her around town and even jump in her car when she stopped at a stop sign. He would put sugar in her gas tank, slashed two sets of tires and cut the power steering, along with just plain vandalizing the cars. tired of this she filed a harassment charge against him. When in court he threatened to kill her she signed a restraining order against him.

When she got home that evening her friend asked if she wanted them to come over and she accepted. During the middle of the night her boyfriend broke into her house and held all of the kids hostage. When he put the gun down she immediately grabbed it, as both women struggled with the boyfriend for the gun and screamed for the kids to run. The smallest one not wanting to leave his mother was pulled away by an older child. As he pulled the gun away and yelled at her to retract the restraining order she tried to run away.

As she tried to get away he shot and killed her in the back, the friend seeing an opportunity to escape ran, the ex-boyfriend shot at her and missed, he then decided to take his own life.

In the farewell letters they wrote she asked her dad to get her three kids into a good Christian home, not a cruddy orphanage.

When her kids go and spend time with their grand parents, they ask questions like" Why are people so mean and "Am I going to have to sleep by the window?, Is anyone going to break it?" unfortunately they can't stay there long because their grandfather is ill with a life-long polio so he can't take care of them full time.

I think that this really suck for the kids, going through life without a mom has got to be very hard especially when you are young like 9,6,or 4, the ages of her kids.

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A Very Violent Abusive Relationship

I read about this girl named Linda, who seemed to have chosen the wrong guy to date every single time, three times in a row. She got together with her boss at the age of eighteen. In the past, she had had a baby with someone else, and she didn't want to have anymore. She ended up getting pregnant with her boss and told him that she was going to terminate the pregnancy, but her boss wanted to have a baby with her eventhough she didn't want to. That's when he started to threaten and beat her up real bad.

He did horrible things to her eventhough she was pregnant. She almost always had bruises and black eyes. She was hit for pathetic reasons. She ended up having four kids with the guy. She got tired of living with him, so she left him, taking her oldest son with her.

She should have done that ages ago. Anyway, she became a stripper to provide for her kid and herself. She hooked up with another guy who seemed nice at first like her boss, but he ended up being a total jerk. He hit her twice and was going to rape her, but he got arrested and put in jail for one and a half years.

She then was introduced to another guy, named Jeff, who was worse than the two other men put together. He hit her everyday and stalked her wherever she went. He even held a gun to her head once. She put up with him for six and a half years! Then she left him, but he found her anyway. When he found her, he beat her up so bad that she almost died. He smashed her face until blood spurted out. He made her spend the night with him. She waited until he was asleep, and she ran away and accused him with the police.

He went to jail for a long time, and Linda finally met her prince charming which she lived with happily ever after and stuff.

All the violence that she went through took a period of about thirty-three years!

I think that Linda was not smart to keep dating the same guy that kept beating her. She should have left the guy as soon as he hit her the first time. Maybe she thought that her relationship with her boss could have changed after she had a baby with him. And maybe she thought that guys make mistakes and they can change, but evidently for her they didn't. What happened to Linda shows that you have to be careful with your choices because the world can be cruel and violent, and Linda was lucky to have survived that cruelty, but some people aren't so lucky.

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